Saturday 4 July 2009

The Ex List.....

This post is very short.....

Why do we keep going back......

To the ex........?????


  1. plenty reasons:
    - unresolved emotions
    - the sex was great
    - the sex was great and we cant imagine getting it better anywhere else
    - the stress of starting another relationship from scratch isnt so appealing
    - lonely and the ex is still willing/available

    ....cant think of anymore right now, if i do i'll let u know :)

  2. Loads of reason;
    -Maybe you actually love this guy/gul and you ment to be together.
    -Because you are lonel
    -you miss the good times
    -you are used to him
    -Maybe you heard he/she was seeing someone else, and can't stand to think of him/her with somebody else
    -you wanted the challenge of stealing him/her from another woman/man just to prove you are better.
    -Maybe you didn't know what you had till it was gone.
    -Maybe you actually love this guy/gul.

  3. may be it was always meant to be!!!

  4. Yeah,i concur with everything Tunrayo Debhor & Anonymous have said,probably it was always meant to be.........
    if it is not easy getting over someone,then probably you are meant to be together....

  5. cos u may still have feelings for him

  6. Noooooo, you guys are dishing out wrong advice!!
    Sometimes someone is bad for you but the person seems to have a hold on you, and as much as you know its only a matter of time before you break up again due to some random argument, you still go the damn ex.....:-)

  7. miss b, i beg to differ from you for load of reasons;
    -The couple that fights the most is the one most in love... it shows they care enough to notice the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When you stop fighting it means you stopped caring, so stop laving rather help in fixing the problem.

    -You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly....

  8. Better pack your load and run.....
    This isn't Ross and Rachel,if the person is bad for you stay away

    The main reason girls stay is because they think they can "change him". Even when it seems unlikely that he ever will, they'll hang in there, "before someone else will come and reap the fruits of their labour."
    I understand that in a little sense: nothing sucks more than seeing the your downtrodden beau turn into a hard-working ambitious fella AFTER the break-up.
    But at the end of the day, people are the way they are....and will only change when they- and they alone- feel the need to. Will you be willing to change if someone asked you to?